“I’ve met them, talked to them. They aren’t terrible people.”
A good friend, who is a far more tolerant person than I ever want to be, if I could be, keeps trying to convince me that Trump’s voters have some value, deep down inside, far below the surface, that makes them redeemable. Apparently, it’s hidden underneath their lizard skin “disguises.” “I’ve met them, talked to them. They aren’t terrible people,” he says. When he lived in an industrial farming area, his neighbors were all red neck, uneducated, agricultural-welfare dependent, Trumpers. They imagined themselves to be “conservative” and, even, capitalist, while desperately depending on “the big city” to pay their bills, build their roads, install and maintain their communications systems, provide their power, and create fake markets for their toxic commodity “crops.”
He is, mostly, a city kid who grew up with the Mayberry image of rural people being kinda stupid, but good-hearted and trustworthy. He is incredibly well-travelled, nationally and internationally, I’m none of those. I’ve been in Mexico and Canada, both by motorcycle and plane, and I tend to keep to myself and rarely put much effort into getting to know people while I travel. I suspect my friend and his wife are downright gregarious, when they travel.
First, if they are “not terrible people,” you’re going to have to explain to me what morality and ethical code they use to re-elect a convicted felon with multiple outstanding charges pending, a rapist who has been successfully sued for committing rape and accused of rape dozens of times, and who tried to overthrow an election. Really? That’s something “good people” would do?
I grew up in small town, western Kansas and spent a good bit of my early career years working in agriculture: first, as an electronic scales (weights and measures) technician and, second, as an electrical engineer for an irrigation manufacturer. In both jobs, I was always surrounded by, what Gene Wilder, in Blazing Saddles, described as, “people of the land, the common clay of the new west. You know, morons.” For the ultimate city guy, Mel Brooks read the rural Midwest like it was a child’s first book. When I hear politicians babble about “hardworking farmers,” I always have to laugh. As a field service technician working for those characters, when I had to get the equipment owner to make a financial decision, I always had to hunt them down in the local bar, regardless of the time of day. And they would always be in the company of a half-dozen or more other rich, idle farmers complaining about the size of their welfare checks or pretending to know something about the scary “Big City” based on the stupid stuff they’d seen on television.
I grew up around those people and the one thing I learned, above all others, is that they only tolerate people who look, believe, act, and talk like themselves. For the first half of my life, I’d learned to become a cultural chameleon: imitating the accent, mannerisms, and appearance of the people I worked with and for, from living in Kansas to Texas to Nebraska and all of the surrounding states and customers. A rare example of my forgetting to stay “in character and costume” is the story, “The Last Wagon Wheel Gig,” and that experience stuck with me for the rest of my life (which could have been cut very short that night).
It would be a mistake to assume that everyone in the rural areas is an asshole, but starting with that assumption is always a good idea. Even total asshole states like Wyoming, Montana, Idaho, Utah, the Dakotas, and the deep south, still have 25%-to-almost-50% of their population leaning somewhat progressive. As James Dickey tried to depict in his book, Deliverance, in those places, the nicest people are among the finest, kindest, most generous examples of humans on the planet, while the rest are solidly the absolute worst. It’s always a good plan to stay incognito until you know who you’re dealing with.
At the other end of that scale, when I was barely 19, I moved to Dallas, Texas for a fly-by-night computer programming school (that folded less than a year after they’d taken all of my college savings and were sued by students and parents). It didn’t take long for me to figure out that the worst people in “the big city” were rural immigrants and, consistently, the only people who were trustworthy and decent were people who had lived their whole lives in the city. Of course, most of the people I met were in my economic class (poor), but not all of them.
For me, moving to California (the L.A. area, in fact), in 1983, was a brief moment in my life of simply being who I am without any sort of costume. I was there for almost a decade it and, for a closet liberal/hippy/semi-creative, that was my “coming out party.” When I left California, I (lucky for me) tried Indiana first, which quickly helped me rebuild my damn closet and outfit it with all of my old disguises. Indiana is a disgustingly red state, filled with beat-down, uneducated, lazy, mostly-white, poor people and a tiny minority of filthy rich, idle and useless, nepo-baby, ruling elites. That pack of ruling elites are proudly anti-union, anti-education, anti-immigrant, and fascist Republicans. I was there in a half-hearted (by the company owners) attempt to bring product design and manufacturing to a small audio electronics division of a company that had long-since abandoned everything but marketing and sales and was sinking into corporate oblivion (which would happen two years later).
From there, I moved to Denver, Colorado and, like Dallas and California, the most vile urban Coloradans are consistently rural immigrants to “the big city.” They bring their prejudice, ignorance, and gullibility with them and drag the city down with them. Like most of the nation’s urban areas, Denver is a liberal, “Blue” city surrounded by imbecilic red-staters (Representative Bobert is a prime example of rural Colorado). From Denver to Minneapolis in 1996 to today, the rule remains true: rural implants to the city are more often than not idiots dragging everyone else down with them. And it is a huge mistake to assume that they are benign idiots, since they are overwhelmingly the characters who decide gunning down a building full of little kids or assassinating a popular, productive politician is an act of rebellion.
So, my friend, I disagree with you. They are “terrible people” and, typically, so are their offspring: untrustworthy, racist, violent, gullible, selfish, and greedy. Stupid people tend to produce more stupid people and that is exactly why this country is where it is today.